Can God Really Forgive Me?

“God could never forgive me. I have done some awful things.” How many times has that thought passed through the synapses of human brains? Does it frequently lodge in your “gray matter”? When you are alone at night with just your thoughts, are they thoughts of despair, hopelessness, and frustration?

The private thoughts of a prodigal boy in a pigpen in the far country give us some hope (Luke 15:11–32). That boy was an invention of the Master Storyteller to share a message about forgiveness… about a Father’s all-encompassing, incomprehensible love… and about heaven’s sermon of hope when the devil preaches despair.

That hungry prodigal knew his rich father would not go to bed without supper that night. But the son would. Pondering this thought, he realized that nobody on his father’s farm would fall asleep with a growling stomach. But he would. Even his father’s servants had “bread enough and to spare” (Luke 15:17). But he did not.

Since the father in the parable represents the Father in the Bible, we can draw some interesting conclusions from the phrase “bread enough and to spare.” God has never been stingy with His blessings. He “gives to all liberally and without reproach” (James 1:5; cf. 1:17).

Take bread, for instance. When Israel needed some in the wilderness, they had all the manna they wanted: “Let every man gather it according to each one’s need, one omer for each person” (Exodus 16:16). When a widow shared with Elijah what she thought was her last meal, God refilled her flour barrel, and no matter how much she dipped out, it stayed full until the famine ended (1 Kings 17:15–16). When Jesus fed four thousand men (besides women and children), the famished people ate all they wanted and still had seven baskets extra (Matthew 15:37).

When we think of man and see the magnitude of his sin, we can hardly understand how a single sinner can be saved; but when we think of God and see the magnitude of His love, we can hardly understand how a single one could be lost.

Have you heard that God loved sinners better than He loved His own Son? How can you say that? you ask. He “did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all” (Romans 8:32); He spares sinners. He poured His wrath upon His Son, making Him (the innocent) the substitute for sinners, that He might lavish love upon us (the guilty) who deserved His anger.

Since God freely gives us “all things” (Romans 8:32) and withholds “no good thing… from those who walk uprightly” (Psalm 84:11), what can we count on when we make the journey back to our Father from the far country?

WITH GOD, THERE IS GRACE ENOUGH AND TO SPARE

No one has gotten up from God’s table still needing a snack of grace. Is your case a difficult one? Have your sins been shocking and frequent? Are your spiritual diseases strange and complex?

Consider that He who made the earth and stretched out the heavens like a tent must therefore have no limit to His might! In six thousand years, He has never failed at anything—will His first failure be saving you? Will you prove too strong for omnipotence, too clever for omniscience, or too unlovable for omni-benevolence? If He made you (Genesis 1:27), He can remake you (2 Corinthians 5:17). If He claims you (2 Corinthians 6:18), He can cleanse you (Acts 22:16). His “hand is not shortened, that it cannot save” (Isaiah 59:1).1

It still stands. God offers “abundant grace” (2 Corinthians 4:15) and “abundant mercy” (1 Peter 1:3; cf. Titus 3:5–6), yea, “exceedingly abundant” (1 Timothy 1:14). He is able “to save to the uttermost those who come to God through Him” (Hebrews 7:25). Peter said, “An entrance will be supplied to you abundantly into the everlasting kingdom” (2 Peter 1:11). Paul concluded, “Where sin abounded, grace abounded much more” (Romans 5:20).

Let us put this plenteous grace to the test in the real world of really bad sinners. Does God live up to His promises?

  • Those on whose hands God saw crimson stains that matched His Son’s blood type were told, “Repent, and let every one of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins” (Acts 2:38). Three thousand of them washed their hands in the “fountain filled with blood drawn from Immanuel’s veins”2 that very day (cf. 2:41; Zechariah 13:1), and many others took Him up on His offer in the coming weeks (Acts 2:47). It would be hard to imagine a case today that could equal the sinfulness of those at Pentecost.
  • What about moral delinquents? Doubtless the immoral, swindlers, and drunks are not welcome at the Father’s banquet. Right? Again, we find they are—provided they are penitent. Paul wrote of some who had been fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, homosexuals, thieves, covetous, drunkards, revilers, and extortioners (1 Corinthians 6:9–10). By God’s grace, they had been washed, sanctified, and justified (6:11).
  • Saul of Tarsus, who was public enemy number one in the kingdom of heaven at the time, tested the grace-enough-and-to-spare-principle as perhaps no other individual has. He was a blasphemer of God and murderer of innocent Christians. It seems he organized and supervised the mob killing of Stephen, for instance, who likely left a wife and child behind3 when the fatal rock prematurely sent him into eternity (Acts 7).

Surely, Saul would find that grace could cover only so much—and that he had long ago crossed that line. No, he also found bread enough and to spare. Years later he wrote of himself (still calling himself the chief of sinners) as one who “was formerly a blasphemer, a persecutor, and an insolent man; but I obtained mercy… and the grace of our Lord was exceedingly abundant” (1 Timothy 1:13–14). Is it any wonder that Paul wrote more about grace than any other New Testament writer? In fact, he wrote more about grace than all the others combined!

Can God forgive you? Yes! Will God forgive you? Yes! The real question is, “Do you really want to be forgiven?” Are you willing to take God on His terms? What are His terms? Learning of Christ (John 6:44–45); faith in Christ (Acts 16:31); repentance of sins (Luke 13:3); confession of Christ (Romans 10:10); baptism into Christ (1 Peter 3:21); and then faithful living for Christ (Revelation 2:10).

Take God at His Word. Trust in Him. Obey Him. Live with Him forever!

Endnotes

1Charles H. Spurgeon, Miracles and Parables of Our Lord. Baker Book House, Grand Rapids, MI, 1993, 2nd Edition.

2William Cowper, https://hymnary.org/.

3Most commentators believe that the men selected in Acts 6 (among whom was Stephen) were deacons and thus would have met the qualifications outlined in 1 Timothy 3, including having a wife and child.

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